I am very sure that many ladies will like to read this because I have equally revealed why some some ladies remained single. But don’t blame men, life itself is hard.
Well, there are a series of reasons some men have refused to leave the single life alone for small boys. I am sure you know some. here are few of those reasons I can think of as at the time of this post.
→ Financial Ground
It is not easy to manage the home without the cash. Despite the difficulty most men still think that they must store that millions before settling down in the family way, however, they are those you will likely find in various bars, hotels and the likes after working hours wasting part of the money they should have kept doing fine boy; with such attitude I just wonder when the millions will complete.
Meanwhile, they have one lady who keeps wasting her time, asking her to continue praying for divine favour so that they can take her to the altar. To some men, no matter how hard they strive, things still get harder — no stable job or anything, I wouldn’t blame those who fall in this group.
At times we can’t blame these men with the kind attitude our ladies portray these days.
→ Observing The Lady
Some guys don’t actually know what they want, they place lady under observation, if you ask them what’s up they will reply with their usual verbiage, “I am still observing and studying her”, this is not because of finance or any other thing, but because they want to explore everything explorable.
After they have done everything they should have done inside marriage while courting they will now look for an excuse to discharge the innocent babe. There is God.
→ Parental Influence
There are many guys that will never learn how to take decisions on their own,even after 30 years of age, their parents still instruct them on everything to do. Meanwhile, some of our parents are selfish, they just want to keep having all your resources for themselves thinking you will lose that financial concentration on them to the lady, hence, they will keep condemning all your choices, non will be better till you open ya eyes.
Nobody is urging you not to obey this kind of parents, but we have to know how to play the game so as to make it all balance.
Whenever you decide, they will not have option than to follow you, but there will be problem if the cash isn’t going their way, that’s where you need to know how to deal with it all.
→ The Big Boy Gang
Those that belong in this category will never marry till very late 30s and early 40s.
They deliberately want to enjoy the wealth before they decide finally. They are the ones all the big girls around know, they are those that will be spraying money where they are not needed just to remain relevant and irrelevant places.
The money to spend on the woman or for wedding isn’t their problem. They usually say it is better to enjoy the wealth before they are caged. meanwhile after they get married they still go back to those things secretly, These men are those that must not hear their wife speak with a man let alone hugging the man.
→ They Don’t See Anything Special
This is another reason some men don’t marry till very late.
These men never see anything special in any woman no matter what she is or how she looks.
You will always see them with different ladies as they get tired of one easily.
They are the kind thatvladies keep on following about, yet, nothing good in any of them. At the end they will either be compelled to get married or one be forced on them. At times they will not also have a choice than to take the lady to the altar after the lady has mistakenly been put in the family way.
→ Religious Ground
The reason some men will not get married till their religious leader can’t bear it any more is because of their over belief.
To them, for any lady to appeal to their senses such a lady must share the same belief with them. Their faith has swallowed up every sense of their reasoning, therefore, they expect you to be perfect.
They are very quick to condemn the, makeup, clothes, choice of words and the like to the extent that nothing you do is perfect and in line with religious teaching.
These kind of men understand the Bible better than their pastor, they don’t have the time to give room for mistakes, their kind can never be God as they are ever ready to fight or throw anyone in the fire even before they commit sin.
With that attitude they can never get married until they are forced or raped.
→. Village People
Yeah! there are some men out there that because of their own sin or that of their fore-fathers or even immediate parents they have incurred curses.
At times, those village people might have seen that when he gets married his finances will turn around, they will just change everything for him, people around him will just notice he keeps hating every lady that is supposed to be best for him.
The way out of this condition is to seek help from men of God to cleanse the man off the curse.
→ Too Ambitious
Men in this group are more focus with their goals and see women as source of distraction. They usually run away from women and most women like pestering around them because of they are mostly disciplined and have money but those women get discourage and give up when it is obvious to them that such men are not interested in them.
They get married when they perceived that they had accomplished their visions but very late usually at 40s and begin to cater for their at very old age. Sometimes, they die earlier, leaving the children and the woman to suffer. Men in this category should be encouraged to do the right thing in the right time at the right place.
Finally, I believe that these reasons for most men remaining unmarried for longer time. If there are other ones, let me know via your commentary.